I couldn't figure it out for the longest time.
I saw myself as a person with strong willpower, committed, dedicated...
Yet, I couldn't follow through on many habits I wished I had.
I'd struggle with overeating.
I'd struggle with screen addictions.
I'd struggle with emotional outbursts.
I'd struggle with procrastination on things I wanted to do.
I'd struggle with living the life I wanted to live - the life on my terms.
It got to a point I thought:
"there must be something wrong with me."
or "I don't have what it takes to succeed."
You can imagine how this manifested in my professional or personal life.
You can see how my relationship suffered because of all this.
But then I made a simple shift that changed everything;
I fired myself.
More precisely - I fired my "evening self". (and as a result my "night self")
I realized something - this guy SUCKS at making decisions.
Instead of going to bed on time, he stays up watching YouTube (or something "spicy").
And the morning self suffers.
Instead of stopping eating well before bed, he stuffs himself up with anything he finds.
And the morning self suffers.
Instead of doing what he promised to do, he break the promises, lowering my self-esteem.
And the morning self suffers.
Morning self has a lot of willpower.
Morning self has energy to go after what he wants.
Morning self is centered, calm, and confident within.
So I decided to lean onto him.
I fired my evening self by doing the following:
- I stop eating at 6 pm, no matter what.
- I stop looking at any screens at 8 pm, no matter what.
- I go to bed at 9 pm and sleep by 10 pm, no matter what.
And guess what?
By making this 1 simple decision, my entire life transformed as a result.
- I wake up before 6 am
- I do priming, breating, and reading before 6:30 am
- I finish exercising in the gym before 7:00 am
- I return from a morning walk before 7:30 am
And guess what?
I feel completely in control, inspired, motivated.
A result of this?
I'm ready to share my entire transformation from "disorganized" (anxious/avoidant) in love to a secure person.
Where?
In the upcoming Love Leaders Masterclass series.
Love Leaders launch on May the 1st.
Here's what I promise to you:
PROMISE #1: I will hold nothing back.
If you're ready for a complete transformation into a secure person...
If you're ready to learn how to attract and keep the secure love...
This is the place!
- 6 Weekly Masterclasses (every Thursday) starting from 1st of May.
- 6 Q&A Sessions (every Monday) starting from 5th of May.
- FULL Access to my online store: https://store.matushanidziar.com/
And this time?
Everything for FREE.
And no, you don't need to start waking up before 6 am to succeed.
But I will help you to find the leverage you need to make the shift.
Not in 6 years.
Or in 6 months.
But in 6 weeks.
PROMISE #2: I will send you an insight every day
Starting from May the 1st, you'll hear from me every day.
A reminder.
An insight.
A story.
Something to keep you on track - to stay in the identity of a Love Leader.
Until then, I send you only the details you need to join the Masterclasses & Q&As.
Keep an eye on your inbox and emails starting with [LL].
That'll be me.
PROMISE #3: I will help you to "move"
Yes, you can unsubscribe any time.
Yes, you can skip the entire series and never attend any of that.
Yes, you can watch it on replay or attend the live, but not do much with it.
But also:
YES, you can take this as my invitation to (finally) move from the place you've been stuck for only God knows how long.
YES, you can become the secure person in love and in life.
YES, you can redefine your entire identity.
All by the end of these 6 weeks.
How?
By participating fully.
By doing the exercises.
By finishing the weekly assignments
By TAKING ACTION.
Because the truth?
I cannot change you no matter what I do.
But you can.
And the only way to do it is to take action in the right direction.
I'll show you the direction and help you to move.
But you gotta start walking.
Ready for the first step?
I'll be with you shortly.
Blessings!
Matus
P.S.: Why I believe a secure attachment is a skill to learn and master, not a trauma wound to heal? Watch my new YT video to find out:
