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Daily Insight on How to Attract and Keep Secure Love You Deserve Without Abandoning Yourself, Chasing Your Partner, or Endless Therapy.

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❤️ I fired myself. Here's what happened:

LOVE LEADERS Matus Hanidziar I couldn't figure it out for the longest time. I saw myself as a person with strong willpower, committed, dedicated... Yet, I couldn't follow through on many habits I wished I had. I'd struggle with overeating. I'd struggle with screen addictions. I'd struggle with emotional outbursts. I'd struggle with procrastination on things I wanted to do. I'd struggle with living the life I wanted to live - the life on my terms. It got to a point I thought: "there must be...

If you missed the live masterclass (or want to watch it again) - I’ve got you covered. The full replay is now live... But only for the next 69 hours (until Sunday at 20:00 CET). During the session we decoded: ✅ The 5 Energy Types and how to use your Strategy like an operating system ✅ Your Authority — it’s not theory, it’s a decision-making GPS ✅ Hypnosis first steps — how to embed your chart deep in your subconscious, not just your mind Why this matters: You can watch anytime, but if you...

Not all motivation is good. In fact, in Human Design, the thing driving you might be what’s blocking you. For example: my aligned motivation is hope. When I lead with it, things flow. I make clean decisions, trust myself, and feel deeply connected. But when I’m moving from guilt? Everything goes sideways. I overcommit. I betray my energy. I try to save people who didn’t ask. Here’s the twist... not everyone’s shadow is guilt. There are 6 distinct motivations in Human Design. And the best...

Thursday we wrap up the 6-week D.E.S.I.R.E. journey with Masterclass #12 – and I’ve saved a special one for last: Decode Your Human Design Thursday 20 June · 19:00 CET 18:00 UK · 13:00 EST · 10:00 PST (a later slot so more of you can join live.) What you’ll learn in 60 min How each Human Design Type processes grief, makes decisions and moves energy Using your Strategy & Authority to calm triggers and rebuild self-trust Live chart demo + Q&A Stay to the end for a 72-hour discount on private HD...

💕LOVE LEADERS💕 It's finally here!!! This is your official invitation to the: 💕Love Leaders Circle💕 What is it? A FREE Community that will help you to Recover from Heartbreak. Attract & Keep Secure Love You Deserve. Rise with Secure Attachment, Emotional Fitness and the Power of Community. How are we going to do it? Regular challenges Community support Self-hypnosis and much more. I'll be happy to invite you inside whenever you feel like it. (now would be a good time) Become a member using...

💕LOVE LEADERS💕 "You can't change your past." That's how the saying goes, right? Well, I don't believe that. Why? In my work with over 50 others I saw time and time again that not only you CAN change what happened... but if your present isn't bringing you the fulfilment and satisfaction you're after... you SHOULD change it. Now, you might be thinking: "Wait a second - what the heck are you talking about, dude?" Let me explain... There are 3 things you must learn about your recollection of...

💕LOVE LEADERS💕 Sitting across from a client the other day, I ask them to do something that feels… well, impossible: “Forget your problems for a moment,” “I know they’re heavy. I know they’ve defined your days and stolen your nights. But just for now—can you put a pin in them?” Their eyes dart around the room like they are trying to find an exit. I see the panic settle behind their ribs. The disbelief that it could be so simple. The quiet war between wanting to move forward and staying loyal...

💕LOVE LEADERS💕 I still remember where I was standing when I saw the words. “Step one: Radical Honesty.” My stomach dropped. Everything in me went cold. And before I could stop it, I whispered out loud: “OH F$#K.” We had just signed up for a sexual mastery and relationship recovery program — my wife’s idea. This was 3 years ago. After our first miscarriage. After we lost something deeper: the feeling that we were still us. She wanted to feel close again. I said yes because it seemed like the...

💕LOVE LEADERS💕 The relationship ended. But you are still hoping that maybe... maybe they come back and say "let's try again". You are holding onto an image that is long gone (or maybe one that has never existed in the first place). You struggle with concentrating. In the work. With your friends. Everywhere you go, you can't shake the sense of loss. Sounds familiar? I've been there too. 3 years ago, when my wife said: "I think we should take a break"... and she didn't mean from the...

💕LOVE LEADERS💕 Meet Luke. A person who is, as I'm writing this, taking one of the 3 spots for my 6-week 1:1 Secure Love Reset™. Meaning: There are 2 spots available and 2 days to go (the door is closing on Monday the 19th). Why he? Because he's got what you (probably) don't. Here's what I mean: He's got deep awareness into his emotional states (emotional intelligence). But that's not what I mean. He's got clear direction about what he wants (goals) and already knows how to get there...

💕LOVE LEADERS💕 I love my wife. I don't need any reason for it. But there would be plenty. One of them? She challenges my assumptions as they start to form. So that I can reconsider what I'm thinking and feeling and decide: to drop it as an idea and choose to think and feel something else (we talked this on the Masterclass #2 Emotional Fitness on Thursday) or to hold onto it. Recent example? You see, a month ago I made a decision - to start going to the gym every day. Here's what I do: Wake up...