[48 H] This face is what healing looks like.


This photo means everything to me:

This is my son, Martin.

Born on February 5th this year.

His smile is what peace looks like.

And if you show up to the masterclass on Friday,

it’s what you’ll look like after it, too.

But here’s the truth most people don’t know:

Martin wouldn’t exist if I hadn’t completely rebuilt myself.

4 years ago, my marriage ended.

The love was real, but the relationship was not working.

I was full of shame, anger, confusion.

And no idea how to come back from it.

That’s when I decided to start over.

Not with her.

With me.

I accepted that the old relationship had to die.

I let go of a lifetime of toxic shame that made me chase love instead of receive it.

And I finally learned to regulate my nervous system:

  • to stop reacting,
  • start breathing,
  • and lead myself.

That’s the only reason I could rebuild my marriage on new terms.

And it’s the only reason this little human exists today. ❤️

In 2 days, I’ll show you how to do the same.

Join me for the free live masterclass:

How to Get Back in Control After a Breakup

(Even If You’re Caught in the Anxious–Avoidant Loop)

Friday, October 24th, 11 AM EST

Reserve your free seat here → breakup.loveleaders.life

You’ll learn:

✅ How to end the 3am spiral fast

✅ How to fix your body before fixing your mindset

✅ How to rebuild your self-worth so you attract love that stays

This isn’t theory.

It’s the process that gave me a second chance at love, life, and family.

If you know someone going through heartbreak, forward this email to them.

You never know - it might give them their second chance, too.

See you Friday,

P.S. Every time I look at Martin, I’m reminded that peace creates miracles.

Your peace could be the start of your own.

Matus

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