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Daily Insight on How to Attract and Keep Secure Love You Deserve Without Abandoning Yourself, Chasing Your Partner, or Endless Therapy.
When my wife broke up with me a few years ago, I thought I was doing all the “right” things. I talked it out. I tried to stay “mature.” I kept myself busy. I told myself time would heal it. It didn’t. Looking back now, I can see I was making the same 5 mistakes I now see almost everyone make after a breakup. Not because we’re stupid. Because no one ever told us what not to do. I didn’t know these were mistakes. I thought they were helping. In reality, they were quietly feeding the craving and...
This photo means everything to me: This is my son, Martin. Born on February 5th this year. His smile is what peace looks like. And if you show up to the masterclass on Friday, it’s what you’ll look like after it, too. But here’s the truth most people don’t know: Martin wouldn’t exist if I hadn’t completely rebuilt myself. 4 years ago, my marriage ended. The love was real, but the relationship was not working. I was full of shame, anger, confusion. And no idea how to come back from it. That’s...
4 years ago, in September 2021, my marriage ended. Some would call it "an avoidant discard". I just remember the silence. The house echoing differently. The confusion of “How did we get here?” I didn’t know it then, but I wasn’t just grieving losing my wife. I was grieving the version of me I had been with her. The home we built. The image of the future I thought we’d have. It took me 6 months just to name what I was feeling. Grief. Loss. Fear. Shame. Then another 12 months to find the path...