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Yesterday, my newborn son Martin celebrated 3 months!

He clearly overdid it with "the festivities", as you can see below:

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What also happened?

I hosted the 1st Workshop in D.E.S.I.R.E. series.

It was phenomenal!

And I'm not the only one who thinks so:

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I felt really good when we wrapped up yesterday.

Amazing, actually.

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But today I woke up with a question in my mind.

Here it is for you:

"Can you truly "see" yourself?"

What I mean is this:

Can you see how:

• amazing
• exciting
• interesting
• and attracting you truly are?

Or you don't see it at all?

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Because here's the hard truth:

If you don't see it, you'd be foolish expecting others to do so.

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My mentor and teacher once said:

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"It's impossible for others to move BEYOND your beliefs."

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And he was right.

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Your partner cannot recognize your sexiness if you don't.

They can't see your kindness if you don't.

They won't see your value if you don't.

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Start with yourself.

Recognize yourself.

Give love to yourself.

(Yes, even "that kind" if it truly makes you feel better.)

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The world around you is your mirror.

You never see everything there is.

It's not possible.

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You delete most of what's around.

You distort the image of "life" so it fits your glasses.

You generalize based on your assumptions you bring into "now".

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We all do that.

So the world only reflects what's already inside you.

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And my personal goal is to change it.

To make it better.

To see myself as I truly am:

Remarkable.

Outstanding.

A blessing.

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And if you're here for the ride, maybe you want the same thing for yourself.

And I salute you for that.

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A wise person (you can see her on the picture above - I love you, honey💕) once said:

"There's a difference between being selfish and being self-caring."

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Self-caring is not selfish.

Self-caring means taking care of yourself so that you can give more of yourself to others.

Self-caring means putting on the freaking oxygen mask on the plane on yourself first before you put it on your kids.

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Self-caring is wise.

Self-caring is intelligent.

Self-caring is seeing yourself.

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See yourself first.

Then the world will rush in appreciate the beauty that you are.

I know it!

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Much love and blessings

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P.S.: I'm closing the door to register for the full round How to Attract & Keep Secure Love you D.E.S.I.R.E. series tomorrow at 5 PM CET / 11 AM EST.

Did you submit your #1 question about secure love? Then you're in.

Did you only register for the newsletter? Then head to https://question.loveleaders.life/ and submit it now. You've got a bit more than 24 hours.

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P.P.S.: If you bring your friends, family members or favorite pets 😋 to register until tomorrow, I don't mind.

The more, the merrier.

But, the door closes tomorrow. From then on I'm selling the tickets for each module.

Meaning: Don't miss out while it's free.

You got this!