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Daily Insight on How to Attract and Keep Secure Love You Deserve Without Abandoning Yourself, Chasing Your Partner, or Endless Therapy.
4 years ago, in September 2021, my marriage ended. Some would call it "an avoidant discard". I just remember the silence. The house echoing differently. The confusion of “How did we get here?” I didn’t know it then, but I wasn’t just grieving losing my wife. I was grieving the version of me I had been with her. The home we built. The image of the future I thought we’d have. It took me 6 months just to name what I was feeling. Grief. Loss. Fear. Shame. Then another 12 months to find the path...
Today, we visited one of my daughter Mia’s favorite places in Granada: The Science Park. It’s not just a museum. It’s a living, breathing place of discovery. Multiple buildings. Dozens of rooms. Daily workshops for kids. And for Mia, it’s magic. She’s a 4 / 1 Profile Line in Human Design. Which means she thrives through community and dives deep with curiosity. This place gives her both. Today she re-attended a workshop she’s done several times before. One about the human digestive system. But...
Ever felt like you were meant to write a book about your life? I did. I grew up in a tiny village in Slovakia. Saw things—some good, some tough—that could fill a few chapters. Lived in Australia for a while. Now I’m in Spain. I’ve had my share of wins and losses. People keep telling me, “Matus, you should write a book.” But this week, something hit me. While my wife and I were building Decide by Design™ for our first clients... Her - triple-checking gates in these huge personalized reports...