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Daily Insight on How to Attract and Keep Secure Love You Deserve Without Abandoning Yourself, Chasing Your Partner, or Endless Therapy.
4 years ago, in September 2021, my marriage ended. Some would call it "an avoidant discard". I just remember the silence. The house echoing differently. The confusion of “How did we get here?” I didn’t know it then, but I wasn’t just grieving losing my wife. I was grieving the version of me I had been with her. The home we built. The image of the future I thought we’d have. It took me 6 months just to name what I was feeling. Grief. Loss. Fear. Shame. Then another 12 months to find the path...
This morning I woke up to a message from one of my past clients, Iesha. She’s a beautiful soul I had the privilege of helping through her second divorce. Walking through fire with her until she came out the other side with her head held high. Like so many of my clients, we became more than client and coach. We became friends for life. Here’s what she sent me: Reading her words made me realize something: This is what I want more of in my life. People who remind me of my highest self. People...
Ever felt like you were meant to write a book about your life? I did. I grew up in a tiny village in Slovakia. Saw things—some good, some tough—that could fill a few chapters. Lived in Australia for a while. Now I’m in Spain. I’ve had my share of wins and losses. People keep telling me, “Matus, you should write a book.” But this week, something hit me. While my wife and I were building Decide by Design™ for our first clients... Her - triple-checking gates in these huge personalized reports...