You're still here...


Sometimes it seems like the past haunts you.

Regrets of "what could've been" come again and again.

Reminding you of missed opportunities.

You might even feel like your mind is torturing you.

"Why do you keep bringing this up?!?" you might want to say.

Don't.

There's nobody there listening.

It's not an enemy trying to hurt you.

It's your subconscious trying to help.

To bring your attention to something that requires it.

Because you feel it now.

You know that now you can handle it.

You sense you're now bigger than the "trauma", bigger than the hurt.

All you gotta do is to bring resources where there weren't any.

You might think you need healing.

You don't.

All you need is a reframe.

To change what you used to see as a source of weakness...

Into a source of personal power.

To realize that no matter what happened to you...

No matter what they did...

No matter how many times...

You are still here.

And maybe...

Just maybe...

You're not DESPITE what happened.

But BECAUSE of it.

Don't let anyone tell you there's something wrong with you.

That you're broken.

You're not.

And once you realize it...

Once you allow it to REALLY sink in...

You'll be ready to rise above all that happened.

The winter ended, it's time to welcome spring.

If you feel like you could use someone next to you, to guide you and witness your transformation, reply "Still here" and let's talk.

Wishing you an amazing spring, dear friend!

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