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"You can't change your past."

That's how the saying goes, right?

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Well, I don't believe that.

Why?

In my work with over 50 others I saw time and time again that not only you CAN change what happened...

but if your present isn't bringing you the fulfilment and satisfaction you're after...

you SHOULD change it.

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Now, you might be thinking:

"Wait a second - what the heck are you talking about, dude?"

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Let me explain...

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There are 3 things you must learn about your recollection of past:

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1. Your memory isn't what happened:

It's how you recreate what happened

When you remember, you don't time travel.

You open up a filing cabinet and pull up a file.

The way you access it (right now) depends on your state (right now).

Meaning?

You are rewriting your past every single time you remember.

Wouldn't it make sense to rewrite it in a conscious way?

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2. Your memory isn't what happened:

It's often false

The research varies, but general consensus among scientists says this:

About 25% of your memories are false.

By the act of accessing and rewriting a memory in the past, you altered it.

Sometimes for the better.

Sometimes for the worse.

This act of rewriting and altering it makes it now different from the past reality.

Wouldn't it make sense to stop clinging to your memories as the fact they might not be?

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3. Your memory isn't what happened:

It's only 1 representation of it

And lastly - the meaning you attached to the situation is only 1 possible meaning.

There are 1000s of meanings in every experience.

They depend on:

  • the state in which you experience (or remember it).
  • your focus (what you focus on in the experience)
  • your ability to make sense of what's happening.
  • your experience and understanding of it
  • and many more...

Wouldn't it make sense to choose meaning that empower you instead of bringing you down?

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Ok, so what's my point here?

The point is this:

If you went through a breakup, divorce, or a heartbreak...

If you feel like you've been rejected, abandoned, or betrayed...

If you carry the weight of the past painful experiences and traumas on your shoulders...

You can be FREE of all of this.

By changing your past.

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This is what I've done for myself and my painful memories.

This is what I've helped others do in the last 7+ years.

This is what I'm ready to help you do too.

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Whenever you are ready to let go.

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My 1:1 program PROJECT PHOENIX™ is open.

This is a culmination of what I've learned and mastered over my entire career.

This is a fast-track process for you to rise from the ashes of the painful past.

This is where you'll get everything from me:

  • 1:1 sessions,
  • 24/7 message support,
  • online resources you need.

To be finally DONE with that breakup, divorce or any other loss and have it NOT define you anymore.

If it resonates with you, reply "DONE" to this email and I'll send you the details.

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Yes, you can change your past.

Yes, it's possible for you regardless of how "difficult" it has been for you.

Yes, I'm ready to guide you through the entire process, so you can leave it behind.

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Ready?

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P.S.: Learn more about false memories in my latest YT video below.

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Matus

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